When I see the picture of other family which consists of husband, wife and a child I feel like I wanna have that kind of family later in the future. A mini family which consists of only me, my husband and my
daughter/son.
Having a small family makes you aware of other things that is important in life too, like your self-development, your hobbies, your husband and your child who will get the adequate affection and attention, not much and not less, and the most important is: affection and attention for yourself. I mean, a wife and mother is the pillar of the family, it is our job to take care of the family. If you have too many kids, I guess your time will be occupied for your children only, and sometimes you forget about your husband or even yourself. If we take care of the pillar, it will not broken, ergo, the family will still be united, thanks to the pillar.
In my opinion, one of the most causes of the husband's affair is because the wife is not smart enough to take care the family, to balance between taking care of your child and your husband and also taking care of your condition, physical and psychological.
So, yeah, i wanna have a small family in the future, with God's will of course.
I just bought a pair of new shoes.
It's Nine West, and i liiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiikkkkkeeeeeeeeeeeeee it very much !
Thank Allah for all the fortune that has been given to me, and forgive me for all my wrongdoings.
Ulfi, do you need a pair of shoes to be thoughtful ? *slap myself
own faulty acts.
IN MY HUMBLE OPINION.
Handsome Woman:
A woman with the kind of refined beauty and attractiveness that requires
poise, dignity, and strength of mind and character, things that often
come with age; not merely sex-appeal. Usually applied to a woman who is
also very well-groomed and from an upper class background.
This phrase is very dated and rarely used in today's English. Those
who don't understand the term could almost be insulted by the word
"handsome" being applied to a woman, mistakenly thinking you're saying
she is masculine.
Definition is taken from http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Handsome%20Woman
I WANNA BE A HANDSOME WOMAN !!! Can I ? Can I ?
The feeling I get when I am alone is twice happier than when I am with somebody else. Okay, that's the confession.
Hello!
Been busy this time around, and i found myself preparing to depart from my current office to a new one, a better one, hopefully. Okay, i just read a blog of Kim Daul, a late Korean supermodel who committed suicide in 2009 at the age of 20. I can see from her writing that she had a witty and quirky personality, and suddenly i just love her and feel pity of her. In the young age she suffered from epic depression and nobody even cared a little to help her. Well, since everybody think that depression can be cured by the time passes, I'm not so surprise that so many people kill themselves out of depression. Man, if you think that depression can be cured by the time passes, there will be no suicide in this world. The suicidal intention is caused by the depression, and nobody even dare to acknowledge that depression is very dangerous if it doesn't treated well by the expert, especially in Indonesia where the psychiatric medicine is not so advanced yet.
My message is: you MUST treat depression well if you want to reduce the number of suicide. Suicide is reduce the value of human's life, you know.
